Your Life. Your Choice.

Have you ever felt stuck and unsatisfied with how things are around you? Have you heard “that’s just how life is” and “you have to deal with it” and “things and people will never change” and “achieving your dreams is impossible,”.

No wonder so many people give up on their dreams so easily,

What if I told you that you could completely transform who you are, the people around you, and your life? You can be rich even if you are “broke” right now. You can be a successful student even if your grades say different. It all begins with your awareness.

Getting what you want in life is very fun and easy:

Just fully embody the best version of you.

You need to decide what the version of YOU, that has all the things you want, looks like.

Decide what a successful social life looks like to you. Define the perfect lifestyle that makes you excited to wake up every day. Describe in detail what a thriving career looks like to you.

Write it down, talk it out, or simply think about it. Play with all the images and feelings as you step into this new story of yourself.

Remember: Exclude all perceived limitations, current circumstances, and past history as you do this. The goal is to experience something that’s not contingent on the past or any “problems”.

Be that person NOW.

As you go about your day, think about how that ideal version of you would navigate. How would they brush their teeth? What thoughts would they be entertaining and which thoughts would they not? Would they browse their phone less anxiously?

You might be wondering, “Well this isn’t physically happening right now so how am I supposed to believe this? How can I feel it to be real?”

Great questions! I was in the exact same boat before. I felt like I was just lying to myself and being delusional.

I invite you to do something you actually already do! Every day, you entertain stories, scenarios, and ideas. In these stories, you are the actor, director, and producer. You fantasize about your dream relationships while you fold clothes. You think about racing in your hot new car while you hike. This list is endless and unique to you.

Similarly, you’re doing this but with specific desires.

Now, as you keep practicing being this version of yourself, you’ll notice that you stop needing it to physically show up in your life. Of course, you will get what you want; however, you are no longer as desperate or longing for it. This is because you’ve “mentally given it to yourself”.

Viscerally, you’re already there! You’re already loved, wealthy, and successful. This is when all the events, people, and opportunities unfold perfectly in your life and give you exactly what you want.

The more you practice this mindset or state of being, the more you realize that you are truly infinite. You can really have whatever you want. You become more aware of your power.

This way of living, in my opinion, is most liberating and fulfilling because not only do I get to enjoy the present, the future is as exciting as I want it to be.